This article will help you by giving a few hints and showing you how to look for cluesto work out the difference between fake love and real true love.

Fake Love Doesn’t Last

Both forms of love begin with obsession. The chemistry in love is characterized by the two people involved thinking about nothing else other than the other person they are involved with. During this period of chemical high they forget any and all idea about the concept called time. As far as these two persons are concerned, nothing else exists apart from the other person exists.

However fake love is characterized only by this chemistry and hence only lasts for anywhere between 3-18 months. On the other hand, real love keeps its chemistry and develops into a deeper and calmer and much firmer love.

Fake Love is Imaginary

Based solely on physical intimacy, fake love is short term love. People involved in fake love make assumptions about each other rather than really knowing things about each other. A person involved in a fake love relationship keeps insisting that the other person in the relationship is the most wonderful person they have ever met. However, in reality this is only based on imaginings that they have about the other person – it is not based on the actual person at all.

After the initial obsession settles down, they then start seeing the actual person as they really are, and later decide as to whether that person is the right person for them after all.

Fake Love is Based on Fairy Tales

Just like in fairy stories, where all her dreams come true, the girl feels like she is a princess and keeps looking for her eligible Prince Charming, with whom she can share a life of riches, love and happiness. On the other hand, the boy involved feels that he is a frog who keeps waiting for a Princess to come and kiss him. After that he will become a dashing and handsome young prince. However, as the initial chemical high begins to wear off they start seeing each other as the ordinary people they really are.

After this initial high two things might happen. Either the two people involved actually recognise a true partner in the other and then real love develops, or the love can become poisonous. This forces the guy to become a frog and wait for another princess. The girl starts looking for another frog to kiss.

Fake Love Has No Future

When the initial chemistry has faded, fake love ends up in pain, drama and conflict. However, after the same initial phase, real love converts itself into thought, service, care and emotional understanding and support. By sincerely responding to each other’s needs day after day people sharing real love find that it flows smoothly and effortlessly into the future.